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Spend
time talking with your child about school.
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Practice
separating for hours at a time.
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Read
stories about the first day of school to your child.
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Plan
a back-to-school shopping expedition.
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Buy
or gather supplies your preschooler will likely need to bring to school.
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Buy
supplies your preschooler will likely need to use at home:
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Put
your child's name on her supplies, lunchbox, mat, blanket, pillow, and
inside clothing.
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Teach
your child important safety information and make sure she commits it to
memory.
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Preschool--one
week before school:
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Whether
your child will walk, ride the bus, or be driven to school, take a "dry
run" of the route with your child.
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If
your child will be taking the bus to school, do a practice walk to the
bus stop.
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Attend
an open house or get-acquainted day at school, if there is one, with
your child.
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If
there's no open house, schedule an appointment to take a tour of the
school building with your child.
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Put
your child to bed earlier each night until she's turning in at an
appropriate school-night bedtime.
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Get
your child used to waking up in the morning at a school-day appropriate
time.
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Spend
the last day or two before school starts at home with your child.
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Preschool--the
night before school starts:
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Pick
out school clothes for the morning.
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Tuck
in your child at an appropriate school-night hour.
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Before
your child goes to sleep, listen carefully to her fears and respond.
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Read
a bedtime, back-to-school storybook to your child.
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Pack
stay-at-school cubby supplies in a bag that can also stay at school.
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Pack
your child's lunch for the next day and refrigerate it.
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Gather
in one place everything that's going to school with your child in the
morning.
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Preschool--the
morning school starts:
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Take
care of any last-minute tasks.
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Even
if you can't do so every day, try to bring your child to school
personally on the first day and say goodbyes there.
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Let
your child get used to the environment before you leave.
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Primary
school--several months before school:
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For
a child, entering elementary school means entering the academic world
for the first time. This brings with it a whole new set of anxieties
and preparations.
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Speak
to the principal in the spring or summer before school starts about
what your child is expected to know by the time she enters kindergarten
or first grade.
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Help
her get up to speed so she can keep up academically with the rest of
her class.
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If
your child has any special needs, notify the school and confirm that
acceptable accommodations can be made.
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Primary
school--one month to one week before school:
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Try
on last-year's school clothes to see what still fits.
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Go
shopping for those items that have to be replaced.
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If
you'll be buying a school uniform, find out from your school whether
any local retailers are offering special deals. If so, you may be able
to get a new uniform for your child at a discount.
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Stock
up on supplies your child will need to bring to school.
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Let
your child select her own lunchbox, backpack, and outfit for the first
day of school.
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Stock
up on supplies your child will need to have on hand at home.
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If
you have a home computer, make sure it is ready to be used for
schoolwork.
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Schedule
an appointment with your child's pediatrician for a physical exam, if
needed.
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Bring
the school's medical form with you to your child's doctor appointment
so it can be filled out.
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Make
arrangements for after-school activities or childcare.
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If
you plan to participate in any carpools, start organizing them now.
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Spend
time listening to your child's concerns about going back to school.
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Sew
name tags or write your child's name in indelible ink on clothing she's
likely to take off during the day and small items like headbands, hats,
and mittens.
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Primary
school--one week before school:
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Read
through and review school regulations with your child.
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Make
sure all school forms have been completed and returned to school.
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Take
your child to check out her classroom and say hello to the teacher.
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Attend
an open house or "get acquainted" school event with your child, if
there is one.
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Help
your child become familiar with the route to and from school.
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Start
moving bedtime back until your child is turning in at an appropriate
school-night hour.
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Primary
school--the night before school starts:
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Designate
a place in the house for school paperwork.
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Check
your child's backpack to be sure she has everything she needs.
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Go
over after-school plans with your child.
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Help
your child pick out clothes for the next day.
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Start
the bedtime routine a bit early so your child is sure to get plenty of
sleep.
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Spend
some tuck-in time talking with your child about school.
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Pack
lunch for your child and refrigerate it until morning.
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Primary
school--the morning school starts:
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Encourage
your child to start getting her morning act together on her own.
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Take
care of any last minute tasks.
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Remind
your child of her after-school plans.
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Even
if you can't do it every day, if possible, take your child to the bus
stop or to school on the first day.
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Say
a cheerful goodbye and leave promptly when the bus comes or bell rings.
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Primary
school--after the first day of school:
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Prepare
a snack for your child, and one for yourself.
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Get
your child to talk about her first-day impressions.
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Call
the school immediately if you have any questions or concerns.
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Ask
for--and read--any notices that were sent home.
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Purchase
whatever additional school supplies and materials are required.
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Make
a special dinner.
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Middle
and high school--one month before school:
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Be
ready to grant your adolescent some new privileges.
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Allowing
your child to do her own back-to-school shopping is a good way to show
her you trust her judgment.
|
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Take
the initiative to start back-to-school preparations.
|
|
Encourage
your child to try on last-year's school clothes and see what still fits.
|
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Go
shopping, together if needed, for those wardrobe items that have to be
replaced or updated.
|
|
If
your child will need a school uniform, find out from your school
whether any local retailers are offering special deals. If so, you may
be able to enjoy a discount.
|
|
Encourage
your child to shop for school supplies on her own.
|
|
If
you have a home computer, make sure it is ready to be used for
schoolwork.
|
|
Schedule
an appointment with your child's doctor for a physical exam, if needed.
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Bring
the school's medical form with to your child's doctor appointment so it
can be filled out.
|
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Talk
with your child about after-school activities she'd like to participate
in and make the necessary arrangements.
|
|
If
you plan to participate in any carpools, start organizing them now.
|
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Try
to take your child to school ahead of time.
|
|
If
your child has any special needs, notify the school and confirm that
acceptable accommodations can be made.
|
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Middle
through high school--one week before school:
|
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Address
any concerns your child may have about going back to school.
|
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Familiarize
your child with her new school-year schedule.
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Read
through and review school regulations with your child.
|
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Make
sure that all school forms have been completed and returned to school.
|
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Middle
and high school--the night before school starts:
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Remind
your child to pack her book bag.
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Designate
a place in the house for school paperwork.
|
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Spend
some time talking with your child about school.
|
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Try
to get your child to bed at a reasonable hour.
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If
your child lets you, pack her lunch or snack.
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Middle
and high school--the morning school starts:
|
|
Make
sure your child wakes up in time for school.
|
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Prepare
a special breakfast.
|
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Go
over after-school plans.
|
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Let
your child know where you'll be all day and how to reach you.
|
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Say
a cheerful, confident goodbye.
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Middle
through high school--after the first day of school:
|
|
Try
to be there when your child arrives home from school the first day.
|
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Prepare
a snack for your child, and one for yourself.
|
|
Get
your child to talk about her first-day impressions.
|
|
Call
the school immediately if you have any questions or concerns.
|
|
Ask
for--and read--any notices that were sent home.
|
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Purchase
whatever additional school supplies and materials are required.
|
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Make
a special dinner.
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Back-to-school
resources for parents:
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"A+
Parents: Help Your Child Learn and Succeed in School" by Adrienne Mack
(McBooks Press)
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"Off
to a Good Start: Launching the School Year" from The Responsive
Classroom Series, #1 (Northeast Foundation for Children)
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"Smart
Parenting: An Easy Approach to Raising Happy, Well-Adjusted Kids" by
Dr. Peter Favaro (NTC/Contemporary Publishing)
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"Smart
Start: The Parents' Complete Guide to Preschool Education" by Marian
Edelman Borden (Facts on File)
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"Adolescents'
Worlds: Negotiating Family, Peers, and School" by Patricia Phelan, Ann
Locke Davidson, Hanh Cao Yu (Teachers College Press)
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"Helping
Your Child Start School: A Practical Guide for Parents" by Bernard
Ryan, Jr. (Replica Books)
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"Kids
Who Start Ahead, Stay Ahead: What Actually Happens When Your Home
Taught Early Learner Goes to School" by Dr. Harvey Neil with
introduction by Glenn Doman (Avery)
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"Helping
Your Child Get Ready for School" on the U.S. Dept. of Education's Web
site
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"Your
Child?s First Day at School" from MetLife Online
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Back-to-school
books for preschoolers and primary schoolers:
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"Clara
Goes to School" (Let's Start! Series), (Silver Dolphin)
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"When
You Go to Kindergarten" by James Howe (William Morrow)
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"My
First Day of School" by P. K. Hallinan (Hambleton-Hill)
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"Bumble
Bear" (School Zone Start to Read Book) by James Hoffman, et al (School
Zone Publishing )
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"First
Day of School" (A Giant First Start Reader) by Kim Jackson (Troll)
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"Kitty
from the Start" by Judy Delton (Houghton Mifflin)
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"Let's
Go to School" (First-Start Easy Reader) by Michelle Petty (Troll)
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Back-to-school
books for middle and high schoolers:
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"101
Surefire Ways to Start the School Year" by Joan Novelli, Susan Shafer
(Scholastic)
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"Summer
Start: How to Organize Your Best School Year Ever" by Pat Fellers,
Kathy Gritzmacher (Tops Learning System)
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"Jump
Start: How to Succeed in School and in Life" by Rafael Beer (Jump
Start)
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